I have a mate who has a shit-tonne more friends than me, so he’s often with someone.
I’ve asked if he’s happy for me to call him whenever and he’s told me to just do it, multiple times, so I’m inclined to believe he doesn’t mind it, but I don’t want to phone him and disturb him…
I message him most days and he replies when he can (he’s also very busy lately). He’s used to people contacting him all the time because he was an actor and lived the high life for a while, so knows *lots and lots* of people.
So should I take him at his word and just phone?
I’m a bit wet behind the ears for my age socially, he helps me a lot, and he’s already told me repeatedly how he’ll always be my mate, etc.
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It more means don’t hesitate to call than call me as much as you like.
He says he’ll always be your mate, so why are you overthinking it? Hit him up when you have something to talk about or want to hang
Yes, but choose a frequency that makes sense to you. Don’t call more, but don’t call too much less, either (roughly).