I am first year in college and like i just evaluate peoples by their looks and if they studying or just ignoring their life or if they taking care of their skin , even like I don’t like to talk with people who like have beards and looks older (iam 18 and dudes usually 19-20)
And like yesterday i was invited to hangout with a friend group but their was a dude I didn’t like his appearance so I didn’t feel like talking with him
I usually thought i had just standards based on personality because i want people who take care of themselves and want some self development ,
but now i think i am focusing on looks more , how can i change that ?
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Social skills aside you need help if that’s your outlook.