Hi,
So, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 days ago.
For context, he is 6’3 and very girthy & long. I’m 5’3 and was up until then, a virgin.
After some foreplay we tried penetration in doggy. My muscles were very tense so I had to actively try to relax them as I slowly leaned back onto it. Eventually we got it in and the pain subsided really quickly. We used a condom and lube.
Afterwards I bled a little but it wasn’t as if it stung or hurt. This morning I check down there with a little mirror and it looks like there’s a small tear at the bottom of my vaginal opening. I also have some light pink discharge.
My question is, is this normal? Does anyone have any advice on how to prevent this or will it get better the more I have sex? (I obviously will not have sex while it’s healing, I rather mean, is it something that will fix itself?)
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Yes this is normal. It will heal itself and sex will get easier the more you do it. You’re putting something very big in something very small, so it’s to be expected.
Light pink discharge is well in the range of normal and occasional small tears if you are sexually active isn’t unusual if there is any pain inflammation or any sort of pus go see your doctor.