I have been in relationship for 7 months now and we have been friends even longer. I love everything about him but his performance in bed has not been good enough for me. How do I bring this up to him and I don’t want him to take this in the wrong way either?

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  2. Specific feedback is always better than general statements. What ways do you want him to improve? Have you so woken to him about this before? You need to give him constructive feedback like more foreplay, touching you differently, new positions, etc. If you haven’t talked about this at all before, I’d suggest starting with some positive statements like, “Next time we’re in bed, could we try _____?”

  3. Practice, sex is an art form, so practice and do share yoir secrets with him, tell where to go, how to move… make h8m your personnal porn star

  4. Be clear and specific. And then offer to guide him in things you like. Be upbeat and positive during the conversation if you think he might be sensitive about it.
    And hey, no one likes hearing they’re not great in the bedroom, but if you’re open and understanding and can avoid him getting defensive, then it should come out positively.
    Good luck!

  5. It’s a very delicate situation. Idea result would be continued close with current bf and other sexual relationships with his blessing. There are countless approaches continue to slowly suggest fantasies to BF.

  6. Compliment him on what you do like. Positive reinforcement. Lead with Compliments when suggesting something new.

  7. Can you specify? What is not good and what could be better? Market these would be helpful for other men too if you shared your desires

  8. Tell him what you want not what he is doing wrong.

    Consider that you are part of the equation. Do you behave differently with him than you have with other guy

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