She refers to herself as a top (my friend said another term is a stone top) where they don’t want to receive and only want to give.
In straight sex a top is obviously someone who’s just more dominant, and usually receives a little more than they give.
Lesbians, is this normal?? I wasn’t a huge fan because I enjoy reciprocating and I’m no pillow princess lol. I guess I’m also just still a little confused about the mechanics of lesbian sex too …?
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Don’t worry about labels. If you enjoyed it and want to do it again, great. Talk to her. If not, for whatever reason, find someone else to have fun with. Labels always seem to get in the way of people finding each other.
Doesn’t matter if it’s normal. Different people’s sexualities are different.
A stone top is different from a top. Top is a more general term for people who like doing stuff to other people more than they like receiving, and a stone top is a specific type of top who is *exclusively* into topping and doesn’t want to be touched sexually.
It’s fine if you’re not into that. You can communicate that to her in a non-judgmental way and hopefully she’ll understand that you’re incompatible.