So I know that im young myself but I just dont have much luck with women my age at the moment (still a virgin).
Im 6ft, goodlooking with a athletic body, I have my shit together and im very career driven but no women still doesnt seem interested. Im thinking of just not focusing on women/dating and just focus more on money and myself, then in my 30s Once im sucessful then I can get myself a young 20 year old petite woman who will give me a family.
There just seems to be too much competition for women because there’s a lot more men than women on dating apps, more women are bisexual/lesbian, more women are overweight or single mothers, most asexuals are women, more women dont want kids etc.
So I want a woman who is petite/slim, not asexual, doesnt have kids but wants to have kids. If I keep myself fit, improve a bit more on my looks and earn good money then surely I could get myself one of those women
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Well you already found your problem.
Don’t use a dating app for finding someone, man have to pay premium to even been found in the first place so skip that.
You say that you look good, that’s a big point you got confidence so my advice would be to look for someone with the same hobbies or Sam interests.
The virgin part isn’t a problem and wont be for any girl because you are like a diamond which just needs some cutting, shaping and shaving. In the end it will be worth it for sure for her.
Dating and social interactions with women are a skill and you are not gonna be any better at it being in your 30s. But if you are happy with some gold digger then sure.
I will add confidence. You don’t have it since you are looking at dating sites. Stop that and go meet girls in person. Practice your confidence on approach. Dating online is mostly fake.
>Im 6ft, goodlooking with a athletic body, I have my shit together and im very career driven but no women still doesnt seem interested.
Maybe they aren’t interested, because you have nothing interesting to say and think looks and money are all that matters and it’s not. Contrary to the whole “blackpill” rhetoric or whatever it’s called, most women are actually looking for genuine connections, for someone who will value and respect them for who they are as a person, not for a hot walking wallet. They can smell your entitled attitude miles away and run at the first sign of your checklist.
I met a few nice guys on dating apps, includingn the one I’m currently dating, and let me tell you the difference between someone who gets a second date and someone who doesn’t is never looks or money, it’s whether we click in conversation. Whether he listens to me and seems genuinely interested in what I’m saying. Whether he’s vulnerable in sharing his own stories and opinions (I’m not talking any deep dark secrets on the first date, but just honesty and openness). Whether we share values, an outlook on life, a sense of humor. Those are the qualities women are interested in.
Sure, it helps to have a nice profile picture and everyone has some preferences as far as looks are concerned, but that can only get you a good first impression, if you want to actually progress towards a relationship, you have to he a kind person first and foremost.
Yeah, there’s definitely a reason you are chasing women away but it isn’t because you are a virgin.
I swear I’ve read almost this exact thing like a month ago.