This is a bit embarrassing to ask, but here goes i need somebody to slap me. So, I’m finally getting back into dating now that I am emotionally available and in a good spot in my life, but maybe I’m struggling. I’m overthinking this for no reason.
I matched with a older guy on hinge (I’m a mid 20s woman, he’s early 30s) and he seems cool! He asked for my number and seemed pretty interested. But it’s still super early, so what do I know?
I just haven’t heard from him for like four days? My last text to him was just a question in relation to one he asked me earlier.
Would it be totally stupid to just text again to ask if he was interested in getting drinks? Is this just a hint he’s no longer interested? Four days isn’t too long of a time but I’ve seen other people say that basically means the other person isn’t interested, so I don’t know whether to wait or take the reigns into my hands.
Is it better just to wait and if there’s no response just assume it’s a closed window?
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He saw your message (or hasn’t because he’s busy) and chose to not respond. Online dating is like a revolving first come first serve revolving door of new possibilities. It’s that, or he’s just otherwise distracted from the app…There’s a reason why he hadn’t responded, at this juncture, I’d see no point in messaging again. If he’s that enamoured with you (probably not because all you’ve done is chit chat) then he can respond when ready