i’m married. it has only been 9 months and our relationship already feels like it’s ending soon. recently we had a major disagreement and we fought like hell. my partner went back to their parents’ house, leaving me alone for exactly a week. now all of my partner’s siblings and parents know exactly what’s up and i feel like shit knowing our marriage is now public for everyone in the family to see and judge freely. also one of my partner’s siblings said something about me that i would never get to accept and forget and forgive, yuck. i wanted to give it another go but thinking of how shameful it must be to go back to their house knowing they have judged me for what happened, that kinda demotivated me. what do i do?