There’s this female coworker of mine that I think is into me. She’s very touchy and sometimes flirts with me and I do the same but she is touchy with other coworkers as well. I’ve caught her staring at me more than once we always smile and look away. We always maintain eye contact she gets into my personal space etc. Recently she gave me her snapchat without me asking for it out of the blue. She snapped me first and from there we moved on to phone calls. We have 2 hr+ phone calls and only ended because it was late at night. I love every second of it shes tells me a little bit about herself and even some personal stuff. But in our conversations she talks about her exs and even some coworkers (that no longer work here) cute and even tells me which celebrities she finds cute. Even jokes about me being gay. Another thing is that she has told other coworkers that she has a boyfriend but has shown a different guy. One time she showed a white guy and said that was her boyfriend the next was a Mexican dude. But what she told me is that those 2 guys were her exs and she is currently single. Is she into me? Is she trying to make me jealous or am I being delusional?
Should I confess my feelings?
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Ever heard of don’t shit where you eat? They know this and feel safe at work to push the envelope to eat up your time and attention. Don’t budge until you get a serious offer or you do the same (if you accept the risk of losing your job/reputation) or you’ll get played making hours and hours of aimless communication
she seems very flirty in nature, so i think it’s best to not say anything. i would assume she likes you by the long phone calls and personal issues she shares, but then when she talked about her exes, i think she just feels very comfortable around you in general, it’s not so much that she wants something more. you’re her pal to say the least.