Hey everyone I’m a 30m. I never had a gf or a date or any girl attracted or interested in me. Is it because I’m too nice, I’m not fun, I’m corny, can’t make women laugh, and I’m shy and introverted. I never know what to talk about and I always say stupid things and I’m always trying to be funny but always fail.
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We cannot say why. You could be looking at the wrong women for you – ones who don’t share interests but are purely pretty; you could be rude, not everyone’s type, too quiet, lots of things. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to relax. Coming off nervous is perceived as a lack of confidence, which isn’t attractive. Discover things that make you feel confident to talk about but also learn to read the room. If you go on and on about something and they’re not contributing, ask them about themselves. People love talking about themselves. It’s a great go to and then you can follow up with similarities, or ask other questions and find common ground.