I (18f) am looking to try out the coital alignment technique with my boyfriend (18m).
From what I’ve seen about it online, the man basically enters and then grinds his pelvis against the woman to stimulate her clitoris.
For it to work properly, does the man have to be able to completely insert his penis so that the pelvises are fully in contact? My boyfriend is about 7-7.5 inches long, and I cannot fully take him in without some pain/discomfort.
Does anyone have any experience trying this position with more well-endowed men, or have any advice/insight as to whether or not we will be able to successfully use the CAT, or how to make it easier/more enjoyable? Thanks!
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When I’m slid up against her it’s my shaft/base of my penis that does a lot of the pressure. Like you said, pelvis to pelvis can be a little deep for a lot of people. I learned early on that I have to actually rest some of my weight against her instead of hovering like normal Missionary. Sliding up further against you should help?
I think the clit rubbing is meant be accomplished with the shaft rubbing on your clit, not the base