hi all ! I (22F) have a crush on this guy I used to go to high school with (22M). we recently started talking more as a while ago we both got out of relationships.
I told him I’d like to talk more, he said he would like to as well. I am 99% sure he is romantically interested in me (my friends and those that know him think he does. I just always doubt and can’t take a hint!) and I want to talk everyday.
he’s a medical student and isn’t on his phone a ton, so doesn’t start conversations as much as I do. I’ve texted him first this month a few times and we talk (wonderful conversations about our beliefs and future goals, he is always incredibly sweet, compliments me a lot and he wants to listen to what I have to say) and then I don’t hear from him for a couple days. I don’t want to wait and wait to hear from him, I want to talk everyday but I don’t want to seem too attached or clingy. especially because this is new, and, to be honest… he’s sortof “out of my league”.
I guess what I’m wondering is, should I just text him ? are we too old to be playing games/worrying about things like that ? should I potentially hold off to see if he wants to talk to me and avoid hurt feelings ? I have a meme that made me think of him and I want to send it ! haven’t talked for two days. lmk 🙂