My husband rather masturbate to porn than have sex with me

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1. Try bringing porn into you sex play… clearly he seems to need sometime more

2. Watch it with him, and get yourself off.

3. Partners who never initiate, often crush the self esteem of their partners, as everyone has a need to feel wanted and desired. You need to communicate how this makes you feel and he needs to change . You are young, so communicate, communicate, communicate and if they won’t listen or change, then deviate to a new relationship.

4. You need to talk to him and tell him that this is making you feel bad.

5. Does he struggle with depression? Partnered sex in solo masturbation really aren’t the same thing.

6. Could be porn addiction. Usually it is driven by underlying mental health problems.

7. How do I go about it if I already said it 100 times

8. I call porn addiction and the ”can’t get women my age, because they know better” age difference. But it could just be a difference in libidos too. It’s okay to sometimes want a no hassle wank, instead of really focusing to sex. Sometimes.

9. My husband doesn’t give me a single orgasam, I’ve suggested things he doesn’t find interesting, so yes I do what your husband does and it’s much more enjoyable. But sounds like you two are in love and have a healthy sex life so what’s his issue??? An addiction possibly? A habit?

10. Sounds like porn addiction, talk to your husband about it. Porn is normal but when it gets to the point that you prefer it over real sex then it is a problem.

11. Porn can’t get anyone pregnant….. I don’t blame the guy.

12. He probably doesn’t want to seem like that’s all he wants from you. I’ve had a guy I dated that was like that he hated starting it because he never knew when I was ready.

13. Have you tried using your words?