To me it feels like going against a moral principle to pay for dating or finding a partner when so many people are able to do it every day… for free…
Has anyone found that paying for these websites actually made a difference?
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Also has anyone found better luck with websites like eharmony and OKCupid over traditional apps/ any experience with matchmaking like lunch dates?
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Don’t do it
You pay to go out and entertain yourself where you may or may not come across someone that’s quiet your time. These services are specifically for this. I feel like you can somewhat filter down and pick and choose what you want. You don’t have to pretend to be attracted to someone or hurt feelings.
I think it depends on your personality type. If you’re an extrovert, I think you’d be better off finding a social gathering. If you’re an introvert, a matchmaker is one way to get human curated matches (asking a friend to set you up is another).