How do I get good at giving head

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1. Use your hand to make your mouth “deeper”…. Touch other parts of his body… A finger or two in the ass. Experiment and have fun. Enjoy it. If you enjoy doing it, he’ll enjoy receiving it more.

2. When a girl’s when she’s going down on me, and she seems like she’s enjoying it more than I am, it’s beyond incredible. Just seeing them go animalistic and worshipping your dick like that is total ecstasy. Also, eye contact is pretty hot but requires self confidence from both parties or it can feel awkward

3. Maybe you already does everything as you should. Why pressuring yourself ?
   Seeing your girl (Having fun) with your penis in her mouth is an awesome feeling.

4. Well, how do you define *good*, anyway?

   You I obviously succeed with your goal, so you can safely assume that you are Not Bad.

   And most likely already really, really good.

   Because it comes with the concept that it doesn’t work if it’s bad, so it got to be learning towards being good already since it does work.

   Don’t get me wrong, you can probably figure out a way to do it different in a way that is super-good just because it’s a change of pace.

   Sometimes, the trick is to make sure that when you have him in your mouth, he doesn’t know what to expect.

   Because you can do it fast and fierce. Or slow and gentle. Teasing of urging. Intense or calm.

   A part of how to blow his mind is to catch him off guard. Do something he didn’t really see coming.

   Or, maybe have a menu of sorts where he can ask for what he wants. (Can be fun showcasing the different methods too?)

   You can also make a huge difference with simple things like how it starts and how it ends. Where it happens. If he is standing, sitting or on his back.

   If it’s “just” your mouth that is the adventure, or if you also do something with your hands.

   If the room is pitch dark or if it’s bright as day.

   If your mouth is the only thing happening of if you are doing it as distraction from a phonecall, spread sheet or a video game.

   Gain some confidence in what you are doing.

   If you feel that you need practice, insist on practicing. (I cannot imagine that he will hesitate much about providing the necessary tool for your practice session. In fact, he’ll probably suggest that you can practice all day long if you wish.)

   Find out about him if

   – he likes oral attention when he can no longer get hard

   – he likes to get off twice without stopping in between

   – reeeeeally looooooong sessions

   – switching to ending up inside you once he’s wet and slippery

   – likes the idea of waking up to the sensations of your mouth

   – wants a “cleanliness check” in the shower

   – enjoys a “sneak preview” in the morning that hints at what will happen in the evening

   Not to mention, of course, if you have him between your own thighs while you do it, you’ll end up getting some in return.

   If you ask me, the best type of mutual oral lasts for hours and hours, and orgasms stop being important to count any more because you both get your fair share and beyond.

   Don’t let anyone else tell you how you “should” do oral. Find a technique that you are comfortable with, that HE also likes a lot and you are all set.

   Set a pace where half the fun is knowing that you are in control of his sensations and as a result also in control of him. They don’t call them penises *joysticks* for nothing.

   Have fun playing with him!

   (Need something more specific? Cling on to something here that made you curious, and let us know what you are wondering about.)

5. To concur with /u/GISHMAN_THE_FISHMAN (but from the perspective of the one doing the sucking), I love love love LOVE seeing how worked up my husband gets when I absolutely devour him. I also **really** love sucking his dick so I don’t think much about what I’m doing, I just throw myself into it when I get an opportunity. I switch things up a lot so he doesn’t know what I’m necessarily going to do one minute to the next – I’ll deep throat him for a bit and then pull back and barely touch the tip of my tongue to the end of his cock. Keep that up for a while and then either take him all the way down my throat again or let go of his dick completely except for the very pads of my fingertips. Then I’ll exhale super slowly against his cock without my lips touching it. That makes him so hard he literally feels like concrete. Then I might move to his balls with my tongue or fingers, or whatever else comes to mind. Lots of variety and lots of noise – I always let him know how much I enjoy what I’m doing. Unless it’s a quickie blowjob in the middle of the day, I love edging with him…I stop everything the second before he is about to cum and make him wait. The groan he lets out is the best part. Do that three or four times and it makes for a fucking EXPLOSIVE orgasm. I could do that shit all day.

   I have always liked giving blowjobs but with him I freaking dream about it, and if it’s something you love doing, it’ll be amazing for your partner. And if you aren’t completely confident yet, you’ll likely be holding back a little, totally natural. I have no self-consciousness when I’m going down on him but I don’t think it was that way when I was 19 – I had the same concerns about whether I measured or was hitting the right spots for my partners. Keep at it and just have fun with each other. That’s the best part!

6. Do it more !! Simple.. as with anything practice makes perfect..

7. Some of us are just naturals. I’ve always been able to get a guy off with my head. The first guy I was with was substantially older than me and he said I gave the best head he’d ever had.

   One key things I’ve realized:

   Let him know you enjoy giving it just as much as he’s loving getting it. Look him on the eyes. Smile with his dick in your mouth. Moan, lick, take it out and look at it and bite your lip. His dick is the hottest dick you’ve ever seen and you just can’t wait to put it back in your mouth. Touch yourself with your free hand while you’re doing it and bring your wet fingers up to his dick. My ex said it made head so much better when he realized I’d get soaked just giving it to him.

8. set small goals and go after them

   can you make him cum without hands?

   how quick can you do it?

   how many positions can you blow him in?

   It sounds like he’s enjoying it, so you can experiment around a bit to elevate the experience