Hi. So I’m a freshman in college. I recently met this boy and he is really charming. We went on a few dates. He slept over. He’s introduced me to all his friends. He makes time for me and he’s extremely smart and perfect…. One small problem. I was looking through his Instagram likes and clicked on a girls profile. On her profile there were photos of him and her in high school and the date of when they started dating. THE GUY I AM DATING HAS A LONG DISTANCE GIRLFRIEND!! What do I do? We have slept together and everything. This is ridiculous. Maybe he’s afraid to break up with her? I don’t know.
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Say fuck off
Make sure it is not his sister first.
You decide whether you will stay or leave. Then you have a conversation about it with him. Then you proceed as initially planned
Ask him about it.
If they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you.
Run.
This is problematic.
I would ask him about it because you don’t want to be a side bitch.
Tell her.
Leave.
They could also be in an open relationship.
Just ask
You dump him and show her the evidence
Huge red flag… but it could be worthwhile to give him a chance to explain.
He knows exactly what he is doing
get a boyfriend. even it up
confront him. make him tell her n if he doesn’t, you tell her yourself. then cut ur losses w him, u both deserve better.
Personally, I’ve blown up their lives. Lying is an immediate deal breaker. Not only would I confront them, I’d contact their spouse.
Welcome to Freshman Year!
This is “normal”. You will break up with him, he will eventually break up with the girl back home, he’ll try and get you back because pussy, and before you know it it will be summer.
Dm her on instagram and say so hey….
Don’t just break up. Contact her. This will provide more alternative actions.
Are you sure they are a thing? Like this sounds like your making very unclear assumptions.
Wait time out im confused here, so there’s pictures from high school days so how are you sure they’re dating now now
Could be an ex? Then she just never took them down?
Or is it like she posted an anniversary pic or something recently. In that case yeah run
Walk away. That flag is neon red with flashing lights and sirens around it. Learn from this, but definitely walk away. Know your worth.
My freshman year in college was so much easier. Social Media is the devil.
Watch letterkenny.
Ask him about it
If it’s from high school they might be on the outs
It’s over.
Confront him, and also tell his long distance girlfriend. I’m willing to bet this wasn’t the first time he’s done this to her.
What do you mean what do you do?
You walk away. I feel like that’s very obvious
Dump him. He ain’t worth it lady. You’ll find someone better give it time.
You’ve found out a bloke you’re dating has a GF, ummm, stop dating him & tell him to fuck off, if he’s doing this to his current gf then he’ll do it to u also, do urself a favour & get out of that shit storm & find urself a real bloke that’ll focus on u & u alone mate.
Stop dating him.
You are currently the side chick.
“Maybe he’s afraid to break up with her? ”
Read what typed several times think about it and then break up with him.
EDIT
That is if they are still dating.
Based off your responses in this thread that’s still up in the air. You could always
1. contact the girl to find out
2. Ask his friends about it since you said he introduced you to them.
3. ACTUALLY TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
Just ask him and show the man what you saw. Just be mature about it and if you don’t like that he is dating someone else just tell him you can’t do this. It’s not complicated. Just new for you
Fuck him more and send her pics.
Leave him
Welcome to the booty call zone
You can stay, or you can run