You’re both supposed to reciprocate and communicate for the relationship to last.
So if I notice she’s putting in less effort to contact me, and I talk to her about it and she proceeds to not talk to me unless I initiated the conversation. Should I just stop trying and leave her alone? PS I’ve always started the conversation.
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stop texting for a few days and see if she initiates it
Yes. The behavior will only continue and/or get worse. She’s clearly shown she doesn’t value your feelings.
She might be drifting away.
If someone wants to talk to you and have you participate in their life then they seek you out. Yes, it goes back and forth. You should both be reaching for eachother. Also, it isn’t a great idea to confront someone about whether they are drifting away by text. Those are in person conversation where you talk about it eye to eye.
Honestly, the most likely response to asking if someone is drifting away is irritation and gas lightning. That being said, something might be going on in her life that you don’t know about and she can’t really talk about it. Hopefully that isn’t another guy.