What percentage of your male friends can successfully have a one night stand if they wish, if they went out three nights in one week?

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1. I don’t think we have comprehensive statistics on this. It’s not really an accomplishment anyway. If the woman hasn’t already decided she wants to have sex, you are not going to be successful anyway. And the chemistry is either there or it’s not.

   There is no database that records all successes and failures.

   Besides just because women have an easier time getting a hookup, doesn’t mean the guy will treat her right or put effort into pleasing her.

   From my own experience being charming just gets you her number to text. So it’s meeting women that dating / sex could be in the future.

   Some younger males are envious that women can get sex easier then men. That’s the perspective of a male getting lucky……NOT the experience women get or necessarily want.

2. this isn’t really how you get reliable statistics.

3. AFAIK zero, at least in all the times I’ve been out with friends:

   1. They’ve never been approached
   2. They’ve never approached anyone

   None of them are in relationships or are married, but I know all of them are trying to date but failing.

4. Women find 80% of men unattractive and only wipe right 5% of the time on dating apps. That should tell you all you need to know. Only the top 15-20% of men are easily getting sex. Women are sharing the top 20% of men.

5. There are datasets from OkayCupid that get into this, but basically the very best men are going to have less success than the average woman. That is to say, women give men a MUCH lower median rating than men give women, and are also less likely to pursue people they see as less than ideally attractive.

   If you’re not male.model material, you’re better off putting yourself in the dating market and escalating to FWB than actually looking for hookups.

6. 100% because I’ve raised them to be gentleman but a couple of them are asexual lol

7. The most I’ve had in a week were three ONS. I don’t think it’s sustainable and is quite exhausting.

   It’s hard to juggle conversations and relationships. I forget what I told to who.

8. How would I know, is that something other guys ask their friends?