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Old school trick if I can’t focus I take a Ruberband on my wrist and each time I realize I am unfocused I stretch it and let it smack my skin. That way I stay focused
For me, it is all about timing. I know by best hours are early in the morning. I don’t mind coming into work, or doing anything that I need to do, early. After about 3 or 3:30, I am done. I will still get stuff done, but it is at a much slower, less motivated pace. I quit trying to fight that.
[This](https://www.va.gov/WHOLEHEALTH/veteran-handouts/docs/ProgressMuscleRelax__Final508_11-13-2018.pdf) progressive muscle scan is a short, easy to use (and memorize) PDF document where you go through and re-center yourself via breathing and getting in touch with your body. I got it from the VA to help with anxiety and have found it useful in just about ANY situation.
Give it a try, might clear your head and help you reset and focus going forward.
I sometimes wake up “not feeling it” but my work starts while I’m still home with phone calls emails and text messages. They begin to pour in so fast I don’t really have time to complain or get lazy.
It’s like working at the ER when patients start pouring in. Lazy time is over.
Lions mane.
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If my head’s not in the game I know where it is – in my ass.
A couple cigarettes and a monster 👀
Mindfulness.
Ice cold shower.