I have no problem orgasming at all, even with only penetration but I’ve never being able to squirt. Whenever I have multiple orgasms at some point it starts to feel like I need to pee but nothing ever comes out, then it just gets uncomfortable or hurts a bit and just doesn’t feel good anymore so we have to stop. I know my partner is into it and instead of holding back or stopping when I feel like I’m about to pee I started to just relax and let it happen but it doesn’t. is it possible that I just can’t do it?
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Once you get to the point of feeling like you need to pee, you or your partner have to continue the pleasure (come hither motion on your g-spot/vigorous rubbing of your clit, or fingering) this is what I do and can make my woman squirt 95% of the time. Sometimes a light spanking of the pussy gets you there too. Just a tip to try 😀
Alas, this isn’t the sort of research that gets invested in so there’s a lot we don’t know about the science of squirting but it’s safe to assume it’s not going to be similar for all women. There are books and guides out there if you want to experiment but I wouldn’t stress on trying to make it happen.
I wish I couldn’t squirt. It’s far too easy for me. I don’t get the trill of enjoying sex all the time because I am always too wet. There is no friction. I always make puddles, or I’m holding back to not make a mess. My husband will literally stop if he feels it so the bed doesn’t get wet.😞
A lot of women don’t squirt. It’s not a sign of less sexual pleasure or anything else. Some do, some don’t.
Some women just don’t squirt no matter what and some do it sometimes depending on how relax they are. My partner didn’t know she can squirt until one time when she squirted during oral after PIV. Even now it only happens rarely