Me (24F) and my boyfriend (26M) had been together just under a year and a half. We had an argument and he broke up with me over this. It was a stupid drunken argument over a comment that he made about my room. I regret even retaliating to the comment now as doing so has ruined my life. He is going through a tough time at the moment and after the argument said I couldn’t even be there for him though this time. He hasn’t spoken to me since this.
We have had arguments before but this has never happened. I know we both have issues that we need to address, and I’m currently having counselling to try and help with mine. He has previously had counselling but I feel like he needs more to truly address the issues that he has.
We’ve been through a lot together and I truly feel that he is the person that I am meant to spend the rest of my life with and I love him more than anything. I know that he loves me too.
Hours after breaking up with me downloaded tinder, and that hurt a lot too. Is there anything I can do to get him back? I have given him space and haven’t messaged him, the only messages I have sent are in reply to one’s he has sent me regarding a letter being delivered to his flat.
TL;DR me and my boyfriend had a stupid drunken argument and he broke up with me over it. He hasn’t spoken to to me since this. Is there anything I can do to get him back?
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How tf do you know he has a tinder account?
The tinder things is too new to me, in old school but that doesn’t seem fair. I’m guessing only time will tell, how did he answer when you asked about the letter ?
Could be he wanted out. You gave him an opportunity and he bailed. But him downloading Tinder right away. It seems very reactionary. Give it some time and then come back and talk to. He seems a little angry.