I (f19) had never tried fingering my ass before and I’d like to do it. however, I’m unable to get lube. is it okay to use my wetness? I saw in some porn videos that people are using spit but I read that spit isn’t good to use.

PSA: if you have any advice for ass fingering it’d be appreciated

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  1. You can definitely use your pussy juice. But I wouldn’t put my finger back in my pussy after. Spit isn’t harmful it’s just not a very good lube

  2. Just fyi, you can get lube in any good sized grocery store. Maybe in your case there are other factors that make it not feasible, but just in case you thought you had to get it at a sex store, I thought I would mention it.

  3. It’s not gonna work as well as actual lube; it tends to be thinner and to dry up much faster. So I wouldn’t consider it safe for anything bigger than a finger or two, or for using for longer than a minute or two. (You can’t just re-lubricate your fingers from your vagina as needed because going ass-to-vag is a huge infection risk.)

  4. Coconut oil or olive oil will work well for lube, just don’t use these with condoms, and as others have said don’t go from ass to pussy

  5. Dont do double dipping, if bacteria from your colon gets into your vagina it can destroy the natural microbiom and you can get an infection. So be careful if you use it but cocooil or olive should be fine if you dont use it exessivly

  6. Olive oil! Just don’t use it anywhere but your bottom it should never go inside your front

  7. Yes! Just don’t go back and forth as others have said, otherwise you’re in for a UTI.

    Food grade oils work too like olive oil or avocado oil or coconut oil, given you’re not allergic to anything.

  8. better to use real lube and don’t do it like in porn. otherwise u can destroy your experience.

  9. You can but spit works better in a pinch. My ex-wife and I would use spit as our primary lube, either from her giving me sloppy head or me using my spit to lube both myself and her up before anal. As far as fingers go, spit was always enough and it never caused her problems, but we both brush our teeth religiously and practice good oral hygiene so that’s probably why some people suggest against. If your mouth is clean, your spit should do fine.

  10. Theoretically yes, you can use any such liquid (spit as well), however the issue is that at some point it may run dry. Store-bought lubricant is a product specifically engineered to assist and ease vaginal/anal penetration and if it runs dry, you always have the option of applying more. I’d definitely recommend using lube over anything else.

  11. You can definitely use your pussy juice. My wife uses her pussy juice to lube up my asshole when she stimulated my prostate.

    You can use spit. It is not harmful in any way. It is just not the best lube. But, we have found pussy juice + spit is better than either alone.

    Fingering your ass can be really fun. The anus has a TON of nerve endings. Because of this, typically going deep is not necessarily needed (unless you fin you like it), but a knuckle or two of depth is all your really need to feel really good.

    Try a few things.

    Some people like the full feeling. So, work your way up to two or even three fingers gradually over time.

    Some people like the in and out motion. So you can use your finger and fuck your ass with it.

    Try orgasming (maybe from clit stimulation) while your finger is in your ass. My wife loves this and says it very much increase the intensity of her orgasm.

    Another cool trick that you might like is to go deep with your finger and then while you are orgasming slowing pull your finger out. You go deep so that you have more finger to pull out. Time the pulling out of your finger and go slow so that the pulling out motion lasts as long as possible during your orgasm. Take a little practice, but very very well worth it according to my wife.

    Although the anus does have a pH, it is not nearly as sensitive as the vagina. So, if you do not have real lube, you could try using things like cooking oil, coconut oil, or even unscented hand lotion. If you are in the shower or tub, you could use conditioner (but dear god not soap).

    Have fun. It is a great thing to explore and can result in a lot of pleasure (both physically and mentally).

  12. Get a lube syringe and water based lube. Great for buttplay. Much more efficient than many alternatives.

  13. I don’t see why not. Just don’t put your finger back into your vagina afterward, you’ll get bacterial vaginosis.

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