When receiving a BJ, should you give notice when you’re about to sploosh?

26 comments

1. Yeah

2. I think that would make sense.

3. Every single time

4. Yes, definitely. I have given a few where I have let the guy cum without giving indication but that was explained before

5. It is most definitely common courtesy, and I would do it every time if I wasn’t sure they “liked a surprise”. I had a girl once who told me not to warn her as she liked the surprise, but I would say that is not the norm.

6. Guy here, yes. Just say when your close and right when you are about to cum. Every girl I’ve been with, appreciated that.

7. Yep, even with a partner that previously swallowed, taken a facial, etc

8. Woman here, for the love of God please let us know!
   Shits annoying and you can sometimes be inhaling when it goes and then you cough cum out your nose, it hurts and makes the mood stop 100%

9. Absoluteky! Been with my partner for 5 years now and i always warn so she doesnt gag or anything. Also it shows a little bit of caring doing that

10. Yes at least a few moments ahead you should say “you’re going to make me come”

11. Yes, but whatever you do, don’t tell your partner you’re about to ‘sploosh’

12. Yes, just tell them. As someone who has given and received, “I’m gonna cum” is always good to hear on so many levels.

13. Yes. say something. I have an issue with tastes and textures that causes me to throw up or gag intensely, and a man forcing me to have cum in my mouth would trigger that and the emotional response I get because of all the people who tried to force feed me the no foods.

14. Always! In my experience, some of the greatest moments have come with the response.

    Outside of that, it’s just polite and respectful.

15. That’s just common courtesy.

16. Istg one guy didn’t tell me it went straight to nose and throat. Was the most painful experience in bed.

    ALWAYS FUCKING ANNOUNCE

17. If you ever want another one from her, yeah.

18. Simple answer, yes.

    No matter if your partner likes it in their mouth or likes to swallow or whatever.

    Always give notice. If not, forever be known as the asshole who didn’t give notice.

19. It’s something I’ve always done. When my GF wants to finish me off, she finds it incredibly sexy knowing I’m close. There are other times, she wants something else and will change her attention to something that feel very sexy to her at the moment. All answers lead to my greater joy.

20. The first guy who didn’t give me a heads up before coming in my mouth learned what a snowball was in the same session… 🤣.

21. Be a bro and tap out. Let your SO know, because it’s always good to know in advance when you’re about to get splooshed.

    Also it helps to let your SO know that you’re about to blow, and it’s really not the time to stop 😉 (unless you are into that)

22. Yes, as a man I’ve always felt it was more respectful to let a woman know. But also they love hearing their man say they’re about to cum

23. Lol y’all need them to tell you? SO goes full Parkinson’s 10 seconds out

24. Yes. Please let us know. Especialllyyyyyy during a bj. I like to know during sex too. I have a creampie fetish n if my partner lets me know they’re about to cum before they do, I’m very likely to cum with them which makes the experience that much more gratifying. So always a resounding yes to letting us know!!!

25. As a girl, I prefer to know not just for courtesy reasons but mostly because I find it so sexy and it’s a massive turn on for me. During sex I love to hear it.

26. I can usually tell because his legs shake or he actual moans. But yes a warning would be nice