I’ve been feeling more confident about myself lately so i decided to make a move on a few women these past weeks. The rejections didn’t individually feel so bad but i’m really bothered because i can’t figure out whats so repulsive about me. I do beleive i am conventionally attractive ( good skin, not overweight, well groomed, handsome face, etc. ) and while not being the most confident guy, i am aware of my strengths and am able to showcase them. The image i show off should very well be appealing to the people around me, and i think that to be correct since i get along with everybody. I also sometimes see girls checking me out…
Ive seen people on this sub saying it gets better after being rejected a few times, but it definitely feels worse. Its hard to build confidence with no success. I thought i was on the right track but idk anymore. I guess i’m just tired, i’m almost 25 and i’ve barely been with anyone at all. I don’t really have any friends either so it definitely gets lonely.
Not sure where i’m going with this post anymore, i guess in the end i’m just venting.
Could use some encouraging words or something lol
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Who were those women and how you approach them?
It’s the right path to try to know people but is not to just go straight for asking people to date without enough hints of them being interested.
So dude, a week ago I felt the same thing after my first ‘rejection’ I don’t even wanna talk about this because it still hurts for me to see a person every day who rejected you but I’m trying not too be sad about it (I wrote a post in ‘nofap’ subreddit if you’re interested in it). I’m not sure if I can teach you because I’m younger than you but Just try to work on yourself, practice ‘nofap’, and start hitting the gym. Maybe all these rejections – protections from bad relationships. So keep moving bro I believe everything is gonna be alright with all your things. It’s great to get that stuff out but don’t overthinking too much