So this is for people who always think they are the problem and they can’t make friends. Sometimes, the problem is that you are making friends in the wrong environment. You see every environment has a culture. You either fit in it or you don’t. When you don’t have an identity, you will subconsciously place yourself in environments where you don’t belong. That’s the reason why you can make friends.
For example, if someone is more nerdish and doesn’t like to party, most likely the popular kids won’t take interest in him. This won’t be because he lack confidence but because he doesn’t share their hobbies. Everyone gives off a certain type of energy. We gravitate to those who are smilair in energy. The only time it is a lack of confidence is when you SHOULD connect with someone smiliar to you but you are scared to.
So do a mental checklist. Ask yourself, do I put myself in environments that serve me. Or do I put myself around people who don’t deserve me. Truly be honest with yourself and the answer might surprise you