Anyone struggling with this?
I’ve lived in rural areas, small towns, big cities, and have travelled quite a bit throughout the US and abroad. I move my home a lot as well, though am finally settling in one region. One important factor I’ve found in feeling fulfilled in life is being able to build a social network of support wherever I am.
I want to help others who are struggling with meeting people and setting up a good social life. One that makes us feel connected and belonging. So I thought I’d make another post about this topic. Here are some of the first steps I’ve taken that help a lot. I look forward to hearing your response if this resonates or if you’ve found similar things are helpful!
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1) Making time. Having intentional time to work on your social life is indispensable.
2) Meeting the right people. It’s one thing to meet someone new and develop a relationship with them. But I’ve found that meeting the *right* people is crucial. What defines the right person? You have to decide. I do my best to surround myself with people who inspire me, motivate me to do better, and bring me laughter. Those are the types of the people that help me spiral upward.
3) Working on your social skills. Many people don’t realize that you can actually work on your social skills, just like any skill (like playing a sport, remembering information, cooking a meal). When we sharpen our social skills we increase our ability to connect with people on a deeper level.
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Anyways, for anyone hoping for a change in their life – it is possible!