When and how do you masturbate in a relationship?
My Partner and I live together for two years and sometimes I still struggle to “normalize” Masturbation when I’m not home alone.
I’ve got told that I still can go on my PC, watch porn and jerk off if I want but it somehow feels weird to do that when another person sits in the next room.
Sometimes I just start when we’re together in bed and just get watched or we start making off.
But usually I do it early in the morning in the bathroom or at night when I’m the only one awake.
How do you do it? Not only from a man’s perspective!
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I do it when my wife is asleep next to me (I’m too lazy to get up from the bed), or in another room. I don’t really feel too awkward about it, only if I’m using toys (and I only use toys when I’m on the other room. Or I warn her beforehand).We have a pretty good atmosphere for communicating this stuff, like “Hey I’m gonna jack off and I’m gonna use the vibe, jsyk”, or “hey good night, don’t wonder if you wake up and I’m jacking off” to avoid the awkwardness of walking up while your spouse is in the middle of it and not knowing what to do lol.
I do it the same way, when she’s asleep. It’s not about hiding it, in fact I’d get applauded if I’d masturbate in front of my gf. But I want that space for myself.
That’s not really an issue for me though, since I rarely masturbate. I’d rather do everything with my gf because my hand can’t compete with her 😉
If sex isn’t an option, I take care of it myself. I’d feel bad if I was replacing her with masturbation but that isn’t the case.
My wife and I have a good amount of sex. That being said, I have a high sex drive so I jack off quite a bit. My wife doesn’t mind, as long as I perform in bed.
On nights when I’m feeling the urge and my wife and I haven’t had sex, I just stay up a bit later and do my thing. She knows and it’s no issue.
I jack in front of mt girl almost daily. Sometimes she will start to rub her clit or finger bang herself cause it turns her on to watch me stroking my cock to usually very taboo and nasty porn, the porn im watching is a big factor if she watches and enjoys or just goes about her business. I have a really high sex drive so she understands. Also weve been together over 10 years eventually hiding is just too much work its not like its something she hasnt seen before.