I 18 (M) have known 19(F) for 5 years she told me recently that she was alone for Christmas this year and told me she wanted to see me and that she wanted me to cook and bake for her because she misses my bread pudding and Me. She has been in a polly relationship for about a year and I’m acquaintances with her partner and he has privately talked to me about their relationship and told me he’s okay with me spending time with his partner and that she said that she has been feeling the need for something more. I am open to the idea of being in a polly relationship but there is a slight issue, The issue is that im talking to someone and really like them but they are not ready for a relationship and I don’t think they will be ready to be in a relationship anytime soon
TLDR im visiting an ex over Christmas, her partner in her polly relationship said she’s looking for something more and it might be me but I don’t know what I want because I’m talking to someone who i like a lot but the person im interested in isn’t ready for a relationship
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You’re single. The person you’re interested in and you are not dating, she’s made that clear. So feel free to hit up your ex if you want to, and if you and her decide to hook up while you’re there, there’s nothing morally wrong with it.