TLDR: my clit goes numb/doesn’t feel as good while or after my g-spot has been stimulated, what causes this?
I (18F) have this problem alone and with my bf (18M). I love to have my g-spot stimulated and often squirt after not too long, although it doesn’t feel like the orgasms I’m used to, if it is one at all. I struggle to cum when I’m not alone, even if I’m using my vibrator although I’m extremely comfortable with my bf. Idk if this is normal or matters for this situation, but when I masturbate I “suck in” when stimulating my clit, like I’m doing a keagle exercise, which has now turned into something I struggle not to do. When doing things with my bf I often feel like I need internal stimulation to make it happen, although when I get it my clit immediately starts to feel numb and the sensation of pleasure almost entirely goes away. Is this a normal thing to happen, or is there a way to fix it? I would really love to have mine blowing sex w him bc I feel like we can. At this point I feel broken or like I’ve done irreversible damage to my whole downstairs system.
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I’m a man and don’t have a clit, so I may not have the answers you need, but you are definitely not broken. And you have not done damage to your vulva.
It sounds like you might be experiencing over stimulation, which I have had described to me like numbness. I think it’s related to having a lot of sensation all at once, especially new sensation.
There may be more specific advice that could be helpful, but generally I’d say take a deep breath, slow things down, keep enjoying yourself and you’ll figure this out together.