Hello, I got a foot feetish and have a reallly hard time accepting myself with it.
I can’t really accept myself due to me always seeing foot fetishists being hated on online or real life. Every single discussion I’ve seen around the topic where negativ, except if both parties had that fetish. I just really can’t accept myself if everyone tells me how much I suck for being one of the disgusting foot guys. Its kinda burned into my brain that I am a disgusting creep.
I already posted this a few times on foot related subreddits, but I feel like it would be better if people that not got the fetish would try helping me.
Atleast then it feels more genuine. But idk if people that not actually got the kink would actually care to gove advice, but its worth a try.
Thanks for reading, and sorry to be so negative.
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Being into feet is probably one of the most harmless fetishes. I’m into piss so fucking be it it’s sexy, turns me on, I don’t need to question my morals as a person, and most of all it’s legal and fun. Literally the only people who needs to know you have a foot fetish is your sexual partner.
It’s not personally a fetish of mine but I had a previous partner that was into feet. Honestly, I had a great time. They felt the same way as you though and are really embarrassed about the whole ordeal. It was sad to hear since it actually made them my most attentive partner and it had overall been a really fun and pleasurable experience. Plus, I got some great foot rubs out of it lol
Of all fetishes, it’s really quite innocuous. I feel like the bad rep comes from the group of people who solicit or ogle feet pics from unconsenting parties. Ultimately, don’t stress about it or feel ashamed if you’re not engaging in actual creepy behaviours. It may take some time to find people who are open-minded and willing to partake, as you would with any fetish, but it’s not something to worry about