Picture yourself at a party or hangout. You know one person tops.
What do you do in that situation?
For me I just can’t talk to people I don’t know, and that goes for men and women alike. I just wanna make friends, but I can’t come up with anything that’s not violently creepy or cringy to say. Not to mention my delivery is horrible because I’m a rather soft spoken person. I just want friends 🙁
please help
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I’ve experienced that a few times. I’m also very soft-spoken and surprise, surprise! It was…bad.
However, I wonder what you mean by “violently creepy or cringy”? Looking back on my experiences it was less about what I had to say and more about it being tough to make yourself heard in a naturally loud environment.
Since it is a party, there should be people doing different things around. I know I made some friends by asking them if I could play a game together since I’ve played that game a lot. See if there is anyone around doing anything you already have some experience with or maybe something you’d like to try. These help ease the ‘icebreaker’ phase since the activity is already something you should all connect with someway, somehow.