I (25m)with a (28f) the other day who I’ve been with before, we were at my apartment and was getting some real positive green flags that its time so then I initiated… sorta… it always feel awkward once I actually start making the moves and the touching and I never really know what to say. Once we were really going at it then it was amazing wild sex, but just cant get over the initiating its always felt off for some reason.
Curious what others do to get things started and keep the mood going?
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Initiating sex is a normal part of healthy relationships and it doesn’t have to seem awkward! Just remember to be respectful, talk about what both partners are comfortable with, and communicate clearly. If you’re not sure of your partner’s boundaries or desires, don’t hesitate to ask—it’ll help the mood stay positive as you move forward. Good luck!
“Would you like to sleep together?”
It’s that simple.
“Should I take my pills?”
Fancy having sex?
I hold up the “Sex” sign, eventually my wife sees it and sends back a message using either a “Yes” or “No” sign.
“Can I bang you?” Is mine and my boyfriend’s go to