I was wondering this because I always make sure to be waxed before I have sex with a guy and tbh it’s starting to be exhausting. I do wax for myself, but because you can’t wax too often, there’s gonna be periods where I do have hair. And during these periods, I forbid myself from hooking up with someone cause I’m afraid my hair might be a problem. So that’s why I’m asking you guys, and I want your honest opinion 🙂
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I prefer a nice bush. Looks more womanly if that makes sense.
Honest opinion is I don’t care if there’s bush, I don’t care if it’s fully shaven. Either of those are A-ok.
Stubble is a different story and it’s not an aesthetic thing, it’s simply uncomfortable at times.
As long as it’s taking care of I don’t mind at all
You should ask your partner. Personally, I find it a bit awkward to go down on someone with too much hair; I’m dumb, so I struggle to find shit. So SOME trimming is appreciated.
My wife generally has a well kept bush and will shave/wax periodically, especially in the summer. I really don’t have much a preference and honestly kinda like the hair.
As long as it’s clean I don’t care about style I’ll still chow down
I’m a woman and like to keep a maintained bush in the winter and nice and clean shaven in the summer since it’s more likely to catch all the scents. I do live in vegas where the heat makes it so that you sometimes need to shower twice a day lol. I don’t have a preference for women I go down on so long as it’s not stubbly which can irritate my skin after a while 🙂
I like at least a little bit of hair. Full bush, little triangle, landing strip. Give me SOMEthing that shows me I’m with a woman and not a child.
Nope, It’s all about the person, the complete package, it’s not about individual body parts.
Trimmed but not shaven “clean” for all participants. It’s dehumanizing of the wack expectation of women are supposed to be hairless to be beautiful.
I like shaved but a little hair doesn’t bother me. It’s up to the person tho.
I just don’t like a wild bush, just trim it down you know?
Your hair isn’t a problem! I always made sure to trim before hookups and it’s totally fine, clean and out of the way. Plus no razor burn for me. That’s a good compromise
Unfortunately the truth is that there are a mix of guy’s opinions on this.
Personally I can’t imagine it being a problem and it wouldn’t bother me at all. And I’ve seen lots of comments on similar posts in the past from men like me who aren’t bothered by a bush.
But on the other hand, in similar posts like these, I’ve seen some posts from guys who do expect their partners to be clean shaven and smooth.
I think most men don’t mind it, but I’m a guy who believes if men are gonna be overtly hairy down there then women should be allowed to.
I’m just happy to be there so I don’t really care
I honestly prefer shaved/waxed, but pubes certainly aren’t a dealbreaker or a turnoff at all
My boyfriend prefers that I am completely bald down there. He likes to see it with no hair blocking it. I like it better too. It feels better with nothing covering it.
I honestly don’t give a fuck what the guy thinks anymore! I don’t like being shaved and I don’t want to so I don’t.
I keep things tidy but if they can’t deal with it and it’s not for you, then they’re ain’t for you !
I like a bush, it feels just as nice as a shaved one, albeit with the periodic hair stuck in your mouth while giving oral.
The most important thing is that both partners want each other and have good communication, everything else is resolvable if those two points above align.
My preference is smooth/clean. But any time a woman is willing to share herself with me I respect whatever she wants to do.
I stopped waxing when my gynecologist told it would eventually tear my skin. So I just trim mine. I’ve never had a man complain, I have asked men about it. They have always told me they prefer some bush. Just not a hairy mess. Plus, they want to see things.
I highly PREFER that she is unshaven and untrimmed to a degree. Completely bare is a huge turn off for me. I’m more than likely in the minority with this preference.
I prefer natural. Just no unruly stubble it’s like licking a cheese grater.
I preffer unshaved.
I absolutely will never wax down there. I’ve tried shaving but it felt more like attempting an Olympic sport I was sorely underprepared for. I always trim down with scissors and I’ve never had any complaints before.
I agree with some of the other comments here that it really just depends from person to person and by far and large, guys don’t really mind but better to check with your partner either way.
I’m a lesbian, so I can’t exactly answer your question. My fiancée prefers me clean shaved, so I shave once a week. I, however, prefer au natural if you will. It just varies among people
You do you. I absolutely do not give a fuck what a woman’s body hair situation is. Also long as you shower regularly it’s Gucci. Given I went through a hippie phase in college and never really grew out of it so I may be in the minority.
Also shaving is a pain in the ass and I would never begrudge someone for being behind on that.
I don’t care, but I’m a wild mf
As with all of these questions, it depends on the person. I think forbidding yourself from hooking up when there’s hair is a bit extreme, but only you can decide your comfort levels.
If a guy refuses you whether bare or hairy then they’ve just saved you from wasting more time with them.
As a man of a certain age I enjoy a full on bush. If it’s YOUR preference to trim or shave I’m fine with that. But I will never, ever ask you you to trim, shave, or wax on my account.
I have never had a problem with it. I have been with more women with full bush than without.
I grew up late 70s early 80s and I don’t mind women who rock a nice trimmed bush. I just don’t want to floss my teeth afterwards.
For me (m53) I like a bit of grass at the picnic.
if you grew up in the 70s or 80s you like hairy pussies. I don’t make the rules.
hairy pussies forever!!! 😛
If it’s clean I don’t care
It is really not a problem. When the music start I dont think a second about hair
It’s not the worst. In some it can look quite hot, but definitely a bit annoying when tongue action.
Personally I prefer a well trimmed or completely shaved. It’s just more convenient and looks good.
As a bisexual woman, confidence is my preference! If she’s comfortable with herself with a full bush, I’m all for it. Same for shaved, waxed, or trimmed. I’ve been with women who actually apologize for having some hair, and I wonder who the hell they’ve had to deal with in the past that made them feel bad about that stuff. A couple women have apologized for the SHAPE of their clitoris/labia…
I think the worst case scenario is that the amount of hair is mildly inconvenient. Pussy is pussy. Personally I like to mix it up, sometimes I even grow it out and dye it purple. Sex is supposed to be fun, not a source of stress and anxiety!