This is most likely just a personal experience thing. Don’t get me wrong I personally love it, it’s a great way to raise my confidence and make me feel like I’m hot as fuck. I’ve just never been with a partner who seems to care about it cause “it’s coming off anyway.” I guess I just wanted to see what others had to say. I’m not looking for advice more so just a observation of how others view it’s “importance” to say the least.
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It doesn’t do anything for me, other than I know it helps put her in the mood
Totally depends on your partner. It will send some guys over the moon, others won’t care that much because as you say, it’s coming off.
For me though, when my wife puts in that effort to wear something special, I usually just pull the panties to the side and fuck her with all of it on.
Depends ok the person.. I think it looks hot on a partner but generally it ends up on the floor in 5 min. But if you have a partner that will do a bit more of a strip tease/show for you it’s gets a but more life. Lol
I love lingerie for myself. I rarely ever wore it for partners tbh (also bc of the reason you mentioned) and now it usually doubles as loungewear when i want to feel good about myself and take pictures
It depends on the lingerie. There’s a big difference between a bra and underwear set from Victora’s Secret, and a strappy Bordelle bra with a corset, garters and stockings. Some people are unmoved by underwear, but the latter sort of gear has always gotten me dropped jaws, which I like.
I don’t like it at all, but if she wants to wear it, more power to her. NOw, fuzzy, snug clothes? Release the beast.
Agreed. Wearing lingerie makes me feel hot as fuck. Understandably not everyone likes it, something something gets in the way, coming off anyways, but I feel 100 times more confident when I’m wearing something sexy. Plus it’s additional fun to strip it off together!
Depends on the person. Personally, I’m(M) insanely into it (especially stockings) and I’d like for it to stay on…
Edit: those ~~knee~~ thigh high socks are to die for as well
Some people love Toyotas and others Kias.. Some people like steak and others lobsters..
Different tastes for different people.. Do it if it makes you feel good and sexy… So it if your partner likes it…
I personally love it.. It clearly tells me that my SO went to the effort to tease me…
Also, you could wear it under clothes when you go out and let it show a bit.. Then there is the anticipation all evening.. Knowing it’s on… That you get to see it later and rip them off.. Or just fuck with them on..
I fucking love it…and if it can stay on in some fashion that’s great. Nothing says “I’m ready” than strutting out wearing something sexy…preferably crotch less.
I am intensely turned on by lingerie. My problem has always been finding women who will put it on because “it isn’t super comfortable and it’s just coming off anyway”
It depends on the person you’re with. My boyfriend is obsessed with lingerie and absolutely loses his mind when I wear it – so for me, totally worth it.
I’ve noticed that too, my husband couldn’t care less what I wear. Granny undies, he’s already undressed me, sexy lace thong, yeah, he’s already undressed me. I’ve tried to take him lingerie shopping and nope! Doesn’t want a bar of it!
Personally, I slap on a thong and my libido skyrockets, just the idea of having my ass out for others to see. 🥵
In our relationship it’s kind of my way of telling my husband ITS ON! I walk past and flash some lace or a thong, he knows it’s sexy time!
If you like it, then it’s worth it.
I absolutely love it when a woman wears lingerie.
It’s often an expression of her confidence and sexuality. It’s particularly enjoyable when she wears something that she knows I specifically like!
The confidence is hot.
The sexiest thing in the world is a confident and enthusiastic partner.
If wearing lingerie makes you more confident and into it? Then wear it.
Yes, your male partner may just be thinking he cant wait to take it off. But that is the point!
Wear it! Love it! Live it!
Often for my husbands birthday I get him expensive lingerie for me. He always absolutely loves those gifts, it’s all he ever wants because he anticipates his birthday celebration that night.
If it looks good I prefer it to full naked body. Before, during and after.
Body suits that unbutton at bottom or babydolls make for great outfits for sex.
Body stockings with open crotch also great.
First of, the fact that it boosts your own self esteem is worth it, because a confident partner in bed is dynamite and makes the whole experience better. Second, lingerie is definitely a game changer, especially when you find the piece/style that turns your partner on.
One recent partner said this and it made perfect sense. “I want my gift wrapped”. 😍
I love it. I would grab my girlfriend push her down so I could kiss her body all over. Then make sure some of it stays on for sex. Makes it more exciting visually.
It doesn’t have to come off completely
I like it, in large part because that’s my partner showing me that “I want this, and I want to give this to you.” Whether that’s wearing sexy underwear to a date, or “let me slip into something more comfortable,” it’s aggressive consent. It’s intentional communication of desire.
I love me some good wrapping paper. It makes the gift that much more special.
If it was feasible I’d have my fiancé dress up every night!
I love it. My girlfriend, on the other hand, doesn’t get the “I feel sexy wearing this” feeling. However, she’s amazing and gets new lingerie regularly and doesn’t mind me asking her to wear things we already have, simply because she knows it makes me happy and it turns me on like crazy. “It’s coming off anyway” is just something people with no imagination say. Not all of it has to come off, and taking it off is a pleasure in and of itself.
None of the men I’ve been with ever cared what I wore under my clothes, but the women I’ve been with have always appreciated fancy bras/knickers.
I love lingerie! I prefer her to leave some of it on whilst we are fucking.
10/10 recommended