So I’ve tried having sex one time before, then I was unfortunately very intoxicated due to the fact that it was at a party and I couldn’t really get erect.
Fast forward a year and I’ve got myself my lovely girlfriend. We’ve been going out for half a year and both of us have never had sex before. Only things we usually do is her giving me a handjob, blowjob, making out and so on.
But yesterday we tried having sex.
Before we tried we smoked a bit of weed.
I could get hard with out a problem, she went down on me and i climaxed. After that she suggested us having sex.
Now here the problem comes.
I can get hard without a problem but when it comes to me putting the dick into the vagina I can’t seem to keep a boner, the dick gets semi-hard and flimsy. She also moans in a way that indicates I’m hurting her which also makes me less hard.
We tried having sex at least 10/12 times yesterday, with the same process. (Getting me hard with the help of a handjob or blowjob, to proceed to try to put it inside of her, when I well try and fail I instantly get semi hard) and then the process repeats itself with the same steps.
The only thing I could think about was getting erect, when I thought about it that way it didn’t seem to want to come, but as soon as I started enjoying it a bit and living in the moment I got erect.
Now what I’m guessing is that I’m nervous or even that the weed was causing a bit of this.
But I wanted to hear if any of you have had the same experience and if you have any advice for me for the next time? Thanks so much!