I (26F) don’t know if I’ve had an orgasm. I have sex w my partner and it feels good but never feel like I have finished?? Masterbate but always stop when I feel like I’m gonna pee. I read that you should continue the stimulation but I donno… I have vaginal contractions when I stop but its never a big-O type of reaction either. Did I orgasm? Or am I doing something wrong? Please help. ðŸ˜
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You would know if you orgasmed, believe me.
You need to continue past the point where you feel those things, feeling like you need to pee is early orgasm stage. You might even be a squirter but you’ve never orgasmed to find out.
Try masturbating and go as far as you can. You’ll see the difference.
When it happens there will be no doubt in your mind!
Look up kegel exercises and try them. When you orgasm, your pelvic floor muscles will contract involuntarily. Kegel exercises will teach you where those muscles are and what it feels like when you activate them.
If you’re having these contractions, then you’re probably having a small orgasm. I know in the movies it looks like this big WOW moment but not every orgasm is the same. Some are a wimper, some are a roar. Keep doing what you’re doing and they’ll get stronger over time.
You would certainly know if you had. But an orgasm is not only some random contractions….
i would describe it as a increased of a sensation that when it reaches the pick feels like an explosion, then you feel this crazy non stop contractions for about 10-20 seconds followed by a relaxation feeling….. and your clit gets so sensitive that you can’t barely touch it
Does it sound any similar to what you have experienced?
(Also when you’re masturbating, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles as hard as you can. Might be a bit tiring, but release it to catch your breath and squeeze again until you cum. Squeezing the muscles will help you to reach orgasm faster and be more intense)
You will know lol