Hello everyone! I am a 14 year old girl studying in year 9 (Sorry for bad English). lI have studied in this school for 9 years but I feel like I still can’t make any close friends or even normal friends.
i do socialise a lot with my schoolmates but I feel they think I’m annoying and ignore me. I’m always the one to talk to them and help them but they won’t do the same .I always do small chat with them , but I want some friends that I actually talk deeply with , like my problems and feelings.
i have some ‘friends’ but I think I’m not really important to them .I’m always left out by them , doing projects ,eating lunch on my own .this made me very depressed and become introverted.
i don’t know how to make friends with them , is it my problem? I can’t find anyone that has similar interests or really want to talk to me.
i feel like I’m hated everywhere and I would like a way to be more approachable and likeable , as well as some ways to make friends.
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That’s very common tho, most people are only able to make good friends when they get to college, don’t beat yourself over it, you will eventually make good friends and meet your people when the time comes until then just do your best, (Definitely stay away from toxic people they are no good)
Well, i also struggled making real friends in highschool even the ones that seemed the closest were just using me for their homework. But now i have made actual friends thanks to a basketball club. I think the easiest way to make friends is in an activity outside a school where you will find people with similar passions.
Highschool was hell for a lot of introverts, answering your question i would recommend reading “how to win friends and influence people” that’s an step by step book on how to understand people.