I know this is a common question.
But, read me out. I have only ever orgasamed once. About 1.5 months ago at 31 years old. It was with another person who introduced me to my gspot. This was also my first experience of consent. Comming from a complex history of sexual trauma it was a very nice experience and I am grateful to her.
I would like to have that experience again. So I have decided to buy a toy (or 2) to explore more.
Going onto the websites I find I get overwhelmed and intimidated when trying to navigate toys. Especially during lock down where I cant talk to someone at the store. A lot of the descriptions online are written with an assumption that the reader is either experienced with toys or sex. And are written to be sold.
So I am seeking information from people who know what they’re talking about from their own experiences.
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Most feedback I get from women is that clitoral is often best, get one of those ones that provide light suction to the area and then maybe a toy that has a slight bend at the end so you can focus on the spot when you find it. (Used to work at an adult toy store)(Plus I get feedback about toys in a few other ways)
My favorite g-spot toy is still the [SP lucid dream](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/sp-lucid-dream-g-spot-vibrator-10585.aspx), it super deep and rumbly (and has an awesome charging system ) . If you are looking for more powerful look at the Gemini XLR8 Turbo Boost – it is still not going to be any match for your magic wand though 😉 You can get either from Adam and eve with a 50% discount using a promo code: REDSEX50
I have alot of Gspot vibrators and always go back to my we-vibe rave and my lovense lush. The we vibe is one you thrust against your gspot. The lush is an egg that goes inside you and is hands free. If you like clitoral stimulation as well there are lots of toys that do both
I love a simple external clip wand and my finger inside in the come hither motion.
I have a gspot glass dildo that I love!
While I don’t have a specific recommendation on a toy, I do have another subreddit that could help you in your search endeavors.
R/sextoys is dedicated to questions like this, and they also seem to have similar minded individuals, in that they are open and honest and healthy with the conversation. At least in my experience. They also focus on the quality of the product such as being body safe.
Edit to add: just did a quick search simply for “g spot”. Several good threads.
the plus one vibrating arc is a good toy to start [https://myplusone.com/product/plusone-dual-vibrating-arc-6705/](https://myplusone.com/product/plusone-dual-vibrating-arc-6705/) , relatively cheap, available many places even target or on line. it takes the idea of the gold standard of g spot stimulation , the njoy wand and moves it to a silicone vibrating toy.