hey all 🙂
i have never had sex before, but i tried to finger myself a couple of times and it does nothing for me. it hurts a little bit, but other than that i don’t feel anything.
i’m afraid i won’t like piv.
of course i’ll eventually find out when i do have intercourse, but i’m just wondering if anyone disliked having their finger (or something else ig) in their vagina, but enjoys piv.
i appreciate any input.
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what do you mean it “isn’t a good feeling?” i’m not really sure what you’re asking here.
Fingering myself does nothing for me. It’s partly the fact that it’s me, like you can’t tickle yourself, but I also don’t like the fact that in addition to the feeling of being fingered, I can also feel myself doing the fingering. Just not my cup of tea.
But I looove being fingered by someone else and piv feels amazing. You’re underestimating how good touch from someone else will feel (hell just a hand on my leg can make me wet) and the fact that most guys dicks are bigger than a finger.
“not a good feeling”
Can you elaborate? Does it hurt? Or it just doesn’t feel like “wow”?
Fwiw, I don’t get pleasure from penetration with my own fingers. When I masturbate, it’s ALWAYS clit stimulation. Even my insertable vibrator (a lovense) is actually aimed at clit stimulation.
That having been said, I DEEPLY love PiV sex. To the point I crave the feeling of my partner inside me. Fingers feel very very different from a penis.
Also, fwiw, even with fingers, it might be better from a partner. I couldn’t begin to explain what my part er (u/LostAd6009) does with his fingers when he’s fingering me, but its AMAZING. But penetrating myself with my fingers does absolutely nothing for me. 🤷♀️
Don’t assume that anything that you do for/to yourself will be ANYTHING like how a partner does it. You may do some things better to yourself bit your partner may do other things to you better.
And a penis doesn’t feel like anything else you’ve ever inserted into yourself. Even dildos don’t feel like real penises.