I have no problem pulling girls pretty much my whole dating life has been a series of hookups and 2 failed situationships frankly I’m just exhausted trying to actually find someone that I vibe with. I tried to change my mindset recently went out with this girl 2 times only to get rejected gonna go back to hooking up with random ppl fuck this shit. I realized the more I invest in actually getting to know people the less appreciative they are. I’ve never rlly been in a serious relationship before might as well wait a couple years or something. Idk if it’s a red flag that I haven’t had my first relationship but coming closer to 21 I just start to feel lonely and depressed and I just don’t even have the energy to meet new people
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It’s okay to be angry man. I’ve felt the same before. Honestly you gotta ask if there something wrong with yourself that’s putting people off. Or is it just the choice of women that you “pull” that aren’t looking for commitment.
The more you focus on it, the further you may push it away. Focus on being a better person for yourself, and that will translate well for everyone around you.