so for reference, im not a virgin but i still don’t know a lot. the guy ive slept with before usually knows what he’s doing so i never thought that hard about things.
im a pretty tight person but i mean it should still be able to get into me. it kinda slides out. yes there’s lube. he’s never had sex before so i feel bad that his first time couldn’t be better. i tried to comfort him but i dont know if my words got through to him 🙁
but yeah any tips for this? im not sure if he was hard all the way cause he might have been nervous. but i feel like if we tried again he’ll still be nervous and then it’ll be harder.
and any tips for thrusting and sex from a guys pov?
i would appreciate it. i just want to be able to help him have a good time.
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Maybe try some foreplay first. You know, some kissing, fingering, stroking. That kind of thing. See if that helps.
Honestly, at this point he prolly thinks he fucked up from his end and you don’t want contact with him at all. You can still reach out to him (might make him feel better that you’re still into him) and this time try to add more foreplay and don’t focus on the sex too much (which was the pain point last time). Focus on other things (eating each other out, fingering, stroking, making out, etc.), then ease into the sex by grinding and don’t act too surprised if it happens again. Just keep making out and grinding and having a sensual time without putting much focus on his cock sliding out. It’ll make up for it, I promise.
Luuuuuuuube.
Make it up to him. By maybe surprising him with a blow job then when he is rock hard lay him down and get on top and fuck him that way. Should be really easy if you are in charge and you sit on his dic. It should go right in.