My Bf[32M] just told me[30f] that he wants me to penetrate him. I am open to the idea and willing to try it just because he wants to do it. I am not really into the idea of pegging. He hasn’t tried to convince me. Just told me that he would love it if I do it to him.
I just want to know, from a straight guy’s perspective, what is it about pegging that turns you on?
He wants to be my slave. He says he never wanted to be penetrated before we met, that I have brought this out in him. I am not sure if I understand him completely.
Does wanting to be pegged hint at him being bisexual or pegging can be a straight thing too?
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I only know of a couple experiences with this.
Someone I know was dating a guy who was in the closet bisexual. I already knew this about him because he trusted me to clean his phone and i seen gay porn. When she mentioned she had a fantasy of pegging a guy years later I knew what to do. I caved and told her about her ex. Who was in the closet. Long story short she pegged him and he liked it.
A similar situation is a straight guy who likes to be fingered because of the prostate nerve and its ability to intensify orgasm.
Everyone has an ass, they are full of nerve endings. Some people like them to be stimulated. Receiving anal play has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
I’m a straight guy that enjoys his wife pegging him. We don’t do the dom/sub stuff, it’s more of an intimate connection thing for us – but more power to those who do enjoy the kink aspects there.
Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t want to do in bed. But sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those myths and assumptions.
For this reason I am a fan of having accurate information before the final decision is made. In that spirit, I recorded two podcasts; one for givers and one for receivers.
• Givers: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/
• Receivers: https://peggingparadise.com/2019/12/podcast-253-for-the-gentlemen
These recordings address all the usual fears and misconceptions, offer accurate information and emphasize the relationship, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first before playing it for your partner, because only you can decide if it is appropriate for them. So far, these podcasts have gotten rave reviews. Good luck!