I have a couple questions as a first timer…
-When’s the time after making out that you should be ready to give head?
-Do people like when their partner pulls out the member? Or do you prefer the penis owner does it?
-The big question- to spit or to swallow?
-If you go beyond head, what’s the next step?
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As with all things you should feel the mood of the person you’re with, and make sure noone feels forced to do anything..
If you feel the mood and he’s not making a move, slowly reach down and see if he stops you. Don’t be aggressive about it.
Easiest way would be to just ask though, if you’re unsure
Be ready to do it *when you actually feel like doing it*. That’s a decent rule of thumb you should apply to everything sexual. Do it when you feel like doing it. (If your partner agrees, of course)
You can choose entirely by yourself if you prefer to pull it out or if you prefer to get help. If you pull it out yourself, however, it becomes quite obvious that you have SOME kind of plan, and maybe THAT can be fun and useful?
Spit or swallow?
Whichever you prefer. Some guys find it important that you swallow. But most of us are a bit more pragmatic about it and feel that if you fancy doing something that nice with your mouth, then you have every right to choose your own ending.
For a lot of women, swallowing is a deal breaker. They will never give oral if swallowing is expected of them. If he insists then, he’ll be without oral. Personally, I find it a bit too much of a consequence and I’ve decided that I don’t care about swallowing that much after all…
Next step?
Well…where do YOU want to take it from there?
Everybody has their preferences. All I can tell you are mine. But none of them are deal breakers, meaning, I’m not going to turn it down if you don’t want to do a certain thing a certain way.
>When’s the time after making out that you should be ready to give head?
Ideally within a minute or so. I don’t get a lot of pleasure out of making out.
>Do people like when their partner pulls out the member?
Absolutely. Feeling like she is hot for me and hot for my dick is a real turn on.
>to spit or to swallow? –
Ideally swallow.
>If you go beyond head, what’s the next step?
Foreplay to pleasure you however you want. Get you off as much as you want until you jump on top of me because you’re so goddamn horny you’ve got to have my dick inside of you right now.
Again, these are the optimum scenarios for me. I have no idea what any other guy wants or doesn’t.