So my girlfriend and I(M) are looking for some new things to try during sex time.
I’m looking for different ways to just have fun all around.
Last night I surprised her by laying out a large plastic sheet on the bed and coconut oil (we used a lot). We gave each other massages and praised each other. It really brought back her wild side and it was invigorating for both of us. Any ideas on play and fantasies we could try out?
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Oh man that is *not* where I thought this was going when you laid down a large plastic sheet.
We roleplay a lot of different scenarios. Usually about our neighbor.
Light to mild BDSM. Fluffy hand cuffs. Blind folding. Feather teasing. Mild spanking. Light Dom/sub play. Candle wax play is REALLY fun! My ex and I used to smoke and she said she loved how the wax felt on her skin. You can turn her into an art project. Different colored candles, melt it on her. Have her dress up in lingerie, makes her feel sexy, you get turned on, both win
The plastic sheet is good. Or definitely try some foreplay/ role play. I have a whistle and coach’s tanktop and baseball player shorts and I’m the coach and I got my wife this super-short cheerleader skirt/top. It came with little pompoms too. She wears these high heels with it. Good Lord. “she’s been messing up her cheers and the team is let down”. Naughty. I also have some scrubs from work and stethoscope and got her a nurse mini skirt thing. ” inner thigh and My groin area hurts riiiight here, nurse” A couple others too. My wife in super tiny miniskirts she’d Never wear outside of our house are just such a freegon weakness of mine.
Paint each others body and making print on big paper. Writing poetry on each other and leaving it on afterwards. Some boudoir/pinup photography, taking turns being photographer using the models phone, so they can share them later. ( can be kept flirty, doesn’t have to be more). Eat food off each other, or if you want to kink it have one of you stay as the plate for a meal. Pass a token back and forth. When you get the token you must find a way to give the other 15 second of oral, see how long y’all make it be for banging it out.
There are some good quizzes online like mojo upgrade that you could check out, where you can each take the quiz and indicate things you’d be interested in trying.
When you’re all done you get a list of only items where you both indicated interest in trying it