i deleted tiktok, twitter, instagram & snapchat (off of my phone) almost two years ago because it was just tOxic overall…

…. it was taking up a looott of my time, and….i was constantly arguing in twitter & tiktok comments ☠️ and seeing beautiful ass people back to back on tiktok made me pretty fucking sad

So then after that , i was just kinda bummed bc i was missing out on all the funny shit ….

but then i got addicted to youtube

….
blah blah fast forward to now, i’m finally working at this new job, meeting new people

AND NOW IM CONFUSED?? BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I NEED SOCIAL MEDIA LIKE INSTAGRAM OR SNAPCHAT TO GET CLOSER TO PEOPLE !!!

some ppl have asked for my snapchat n instagram and then i’m like oh i don’t have that anymore haha and then THE CONVO JUST FUCKING ENDS AND THE NON EXISTENT RELATIONSHIP DOESNT GROW ANY FURTHER BC THAT BASICALLY CREATED A BARRIER

bc if i had instagram or snapchat , we could both see what we’re doing n shit, making conversations off that, send each other shit n so forth

Idk this has been on my mind a lot lately n ive just been kinda bummed

:/

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  2. Ask directly what they did, how was their weekend, what tthey plan to do, what about this or that… You dont need social media for that.

  3. How about just get instagram again. But filter out the toxic stuff. Or just don’t go on your explore page. Just follow your friends and look at their stories.

  4. Everyday i wonder why i still have reddit because over all it really has negative effects on me. Makes me feel like im wasting my life when im on there.

  5. I also did what you did and convinced myself I was cool and mysterious by not having socials. Getting back on social media was a really good idea for me. You are missing out. This barrier isn’t imaginary. Just suck it up and admit to yourself you’re not too cool and you want to be part of the fun. Luckily i reactivated my old facebook so i can share memes with my full list of old friends, but my old insta and snapchat are gone with the wind. I have maybe 15 friends on my new snapchat and 30 followers on my new instagram. Starting from scratch. My social life has remained relatively active and the same other than the covid hit, but coming back to social media is just nice and refresing to actually be part of stuff again. It’s nice to make friends and in this day and age social media makes ig 100x easier.

    Everyone wants to be a lone wolf until they realize people only go out of their way to include lone wolves in movies and young adult novels

  6. I have an instagram just for that purpose but don’t open it and never click on stories or check anyone’s post

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