29F. I was invited to a Christmas party by my cousin, but found out at the last minute that it was cancelled due to bad weather. Too bad, but no biggie.
Except I was scrolling on Facebook and found a selfie showing everyone at this “cancelled” party.
Feels pretty crappy. I don’t know if it’s because they dislike me, or maybe my cousin invited me without ok’ing with everyone first (they’re my cousin’s friends), but I wish they would have just told me straight up or not invited me in the first place. I was kind of excited to go because I’m not invited to anything else over the holidays. Now I just feel like a loser.
What do you even do in this situation?
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It sucks to be deceived. Problem is you don’t know what happened. Not really. So before you go beating yourself up more, ask. Find out what happened. Explain that you saw a picture posted on Facebook and are confused because you thought the party was cancelled.