She already showed that she’s really interested in me.
The thing is I’m not really comfortable with… Myself.
After we talked and she asked me if I was interested in dating and gave me her number, I awkwardly touched her on the arm, lol. She leaned towards me, maybe she wanted a see ya hug? But we just met. There was sexual tension and all, but we just met. We talked for like 20 minutes. I didn’t know what to do.
And now I have to pick her up, but I don’t know if I should hug her, or what? Or just wait in the car and open her door without getting out? Or I just get out, greet her, and then get back in the car together?
And when we get there is better to go in and grab a drink or have a walk first, see the city lights and stuff and then go back and grab the drink?
I should maybe know this stuff, already, but the last time I dated a girl was before the pandemy and before having a car. And I was more comfortable with myself then.
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You get out and open the door for her, and you greet however feels naturally and comfortable and is socially calibrated to your culture
Where I’m from, you greet a woman with a kiss of each cheek for example
Hug and kiss on the cheeks (it’s culturally acceptable here)
Cheek kiss is the bare minimum you’re heading friend zone bro
And a proper kiss goodby
A hug
A hug is fine unless it really feels like it’s not the right move in the moment. But like a friendly hug not a sexual or romantic hug.
Just open the door for her, y’all don’t have to be physically intimate on the first date.
A hug would be good, but you do what you’re comfortable with.
Opening the door and being a gentlemen is a great first step though.
However you like and feel most comfortable is preferred. It’s bound to be a bit awkward either way. 🙂 good luck!!! X