I’m F (22) who can’t seem to find my own g-spot yet my girlfriend seems to know where it is like its the back of her hand. Whenever my girlfriend would finger me, most of the time she would always hit the right spot. But when I masturbate, I just end up vigorously rubbing myself like a caveman trying to start a fire. I just feel the fingers rubbing but without the “good sensation.” However, when it comes to my gf, I also have no problem finding her spot and making her reach orgasm more often than not. I would like to add that I have never masturbated before I entered in this relationship. Is it possible that I know how to finger my gf but ironically doesn’t know how to masturbate?
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This is not anything crazy.
Angles and arousal. You will find your way, just enjoy the exploration
Have you tried using a g-spot specific toy instead of your fingers? It’s a tough angle. You might have success using a curved toy like a njoy pure wand
It might sorta be the reason you can’t really tickle yourself. Fingering myself feels nice but nothing great, but it’s so amazing when my boyfriend does it. I think because it’s someone else doing it to you, so psychologically it’s way more pleasurable.
This may be common. At age 16 I had my first sexual experience. I found my girlfriend’s G spot and got her off. From that day forward she wanted me to get her off every day. It may have been because she couldn’t do it herself. It never occurred to me to ask at the time.
I think this is normal. When you’re putting your own fingers in your vagina, they’re coming at the situation from the wrong angle and can’t get enough leverage to put pressure on the right places. When you’re fingering someone else, you’re able to use stronger muscles than when you’re doing it yourself. So it works much better when someone else does it for you. It’s not anything you’re doing wrong.
As others have said its all about not having the right angle. use a toy, the Plus one vibrating arc is pretty good at hitting the right spot and because of its shape its pretty easy for you to apply the pressure to the right place yourself.