So I’m only 30(F) but I’ve had a lot of knee and hip surgeries due to a soft tissue condition, both of which come with a lot of chronic pain and very limited flexibility. Lately I’m realizing that it’s really effecting my sex life. My long time boyfriend is understanding and doesn’t mind but I am BORED. Lately we’ve been limited to just laying on our side or me on my stomach. Even missionary gets tricky because sometimes my hip can pop out of place from my legs being open so we have to stop and completely ruins the mood. But I’m an experimental person that likes to mix it up, being stuck with two positions is killing my sex drive. Does anyone have any tips or tricks? I particularly miss being able to get on top.
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Try a tantra chair or one of those sex furniture with a hole in the middle or sling, that facilitates thrusting and allows you to be on top. The key is not to let your hips bend beyond 90 degrees if you’ve had hip operations.
For getting on top, how about a queening stool? I also use Liberator sex wedge combo and they are perfect t for every other position
Check out the lateral coital position as popularised by Master and Johnson. It takes a bit of effort to get into position, but once settled both partners’ bodies are supported and both have relatively good freedom of movement.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lateral_coital_position