I NEVER see my partner. EVER! He’s always working and we have two children together and live together. I hadn’t seen him in 3 weeks, he’s been here 5 days and we’ve done it once and I didn’t even orgasm. He doesn’t make effort in trying to have frequent sex especially since we never see each other. I told him today I was very unsatisfied with my sex life and he said I’m never satisfied about anything? Like cmon it’s sex and I’m young and want to feel desired? He got offended over a comment I made 2 days ago but didn’t communicate effectively to me about it so I thought he was over it. He mentioned that for what reason would he initiate if I told him if he was very horny that day. I was joking because he kept touching my butt and breasts but the girls were awake so we couldn’t have sex and I asked him if he was horny and he got offended.
I believe he might just be making up excuses to have very little sex but since he doesn’t communicate I don’t know what to do.
I am very unsatisfied.
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You need r/deadbedrooms
You two are going to have to find a way to talk about it. He could be over-worked or stressed, but maybe not. You don’t want this to become the new normal. Therefore, it is worth the risk/effort to put this front and center and have a in-depth conversation about it. If he is unwilling to do so, then plan accordingly.
Girl it’s Christmas, get off reddit for at least today to enjoy with your family, your posting history is terrible, you already know you gotta leave him, you just keep putting it off, you already know you should not have had kids with him and yes you made a mistake by doing so, now you’re stuck. Put your pants on and move on with your girls. Also, life isn’t just about a big ass and big titties, let alone having sex 3 times a day every day, seems you need to mature a lil bit and start acting like an adult, not a 15 year old horny teenager, yeah sex is great but there’s a lot more than that in life, at one point people stop having sex that much because there’s more important things in life with a partner. I’d go crazy having you as a partner as well, let your man breathe.
Maybe he’s working all the hour under the sun because of your lifestyle, does he want to ? Does that effect is attitude towards you/ his sex drive ? Who knows.
Did you ever give any thought to what working away from home is doing to him? It’s probably exhausting and he does not like it. Consider ways to make his time away from home easier and less stressful to come home to.
He is avoiding sex with you because he is getting it somewhere else.